The Art of Kissing

Let’s go back into time now. Do you remember when you were going out to the movies with your boyfriend. There you were sitting in the theater and this romantic scene comes on. Next thing you know there’s a kissing scene so hot you can practically feel it. All of a sudden you look at each other and he plants that hot and juicy kiss you so eagerly accept.

Sound familiar? Can you honestly say you weren’t turned on? I don’t think so! To go even further, I could bet my bottom dollar your man was extremely turned-on also. After all, I went to the movies myself. The point is that kissing is one of the very basic things we all did in the beginning of our relationships. Back when our relationships were passionate. Then for one reason or another, we moved away from the things that worked. The simple things. Then we sit around wondering what’s missing. What happened to all that passion?

Basics have to be practiced daily. That’s what brings mastery in anything. Even our passion.

It’s easy to forget what got us to where we are now. Wasn’t it one successful kiss that started it all? If the answer is yes, as I’m sure it must be, why stop now? Why not enhance our strategy for successful kissing?

To have a successful kiss you must keep three things in mind. Where, when and how. By successful, I mean a kiss that will give you control. Not just a regular good morning or good night kiss.

How depends on what you want to accomplish. A light and short kiss can be used to entice or to tease. Where a long and passionate kiss can set the stage for the main act.

When and where are of major importance. From this moment on you should constantly keep your mind open to find new places and situations where kissing will open your appetite for each other. Stopping in a downpour of rain to kiss passionately can create louder thunder than you’ve ever heard. Have you ever kissed passionately in an elevator? What about in your favorite restaurant? Or at a red light? The list is endless. Your job is to find new, more unusual places. Try them all. You’ll find that the more unusual, the hotter the kiss will be for you both. Try it and see for yourself.

Exercise: Today give your lover a juicy, 30 second kiss. Make it hot. Do it right out of the blue. Just plant one on him and see how he reacts. Also, use your imagination to discover more sensual areas that you can kiss and or lick.

Finally, practice, practice, practice.

Michael S. Martinez is a freelance writer and author of 'Secrets of Sexcess'. For more information visit www.self-educator.com/victoriacb.htm