Heartbroken Guy

I've recently got my heart broken by my girlfriend or should I say ex-girlfriend. It's been really difficult for me to let her go and I think about her all the time. I try to talk to her but she doesn't want to, and I'm doing enough of my part to keep this relationship going or whatever is left of it anyway.

She never even gave me a hint about breaking up because just a few weeks ago she was so in love with me and now I'm like a nobody in her life. My question is how did this happen? And how do I even start to move on and begin forgetting her?

Charmaine:
I'm very sorry. I don't know your age but let me just say that every human being goes through this at least once in a lifetime. It's very painful but the most cruel part is caused by holding on. So, my advice to you, which you probably don't want to hear, is - let go. The sooner you let go, grieve and gradually heal, the sooner you will eventually be able to get on with your life.

It's no good going on as you are right now because you're the only one putting effort into the relationship which means it's unhealthy.




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