Q. Why does my boyfriend always want to record workout shows & dance showswith women in swimwear, the skimpest of course & watch sex videos???
There could be many answers to this question. It could be a harmless malepreoccupation with the female form; it could represent a fantasy life forhim or he could have a serious sexual problem.
Hopefully, you know him well enough to ascertain which of these it is.Addictions are fairly easy to spot by their intensity, degree and powerover the subject. If it's this, he can get professional help. If it's just for fun and is not excessive, I'd leave him to it. However, I feel that between the lines,you're telling me you find it offensive or even threatening.
If a man NEEDS to see strippers, pornography etc in order to get excited, then, yes, it's a problem. Keep your eye on the big picture and what really matters in your relationship. Make your sex life stimulating and ask him to stop looking at these videos if it really bothers you.
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