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Dear Betrayed,

I understand you are feeling a little upset and confused given your present situation. I am, however, curious to know who the 'person' is that evidenced THE kiss. Unless it was a trustworthy family member or friend, I would seriously question the source. Nevertheless, this situation does warrant some attention. You say that you trust your boyfriend but not the 'other' girl. OK, but if you trust your boyfriend, isn't that all that matters? Easier said than done, I know. But try to put yourself in your boyfriend's shoes. It is not pleasant feeling distrusted by those you love and respect. After all, isn't trust the foundation of all healthy relationships? You are still in the early stages of your romantic relationship, so it is natural for you to be feeling particularly insecure about each other's motives, behaviour, thoughts and feelings. But if anything, use this experience to gain some insight into the status of your relationship. It is important that you both (together) confront the situation right NOW! Start by telling your boyfriend that you love and trust him but you are weary of the intentions of other girls. I also suggest that you do not play the part of the paranoid girlfriend, as this will only reinforce feelings of distrust toward your boyfriend. Good luck Girlfriend!