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Dear Secret Admirer,

Firstly, age does not fit into the equation of love, especially in your case. Love is the sum of the personal styles, life experiences, personalities, and aura's of two individuals. I suggest working up the courage and talking openly to your male friend about your feelings for him. Express to him that you feel as though your age could be a problem. However, on the basis of what you have said, it seems to me that your male friend is rather impressed by your sense of maturity. Confronting him is likely to be the best possible means of determining whether a) your male friend has romantic feelings for you and/or b) your age is an obstacle in the development of a romantic relationship with him. Think about it, confrontation is the 'mature' thing to do! May the force be with you girlfriend!