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Dear Boy Maniac,

It's a shame that you feel that you have to have a boyfriend and particularly that not having one makes you feel like a loser. Why would not having a boyfriend make you a loser? It sounds like you may even be putting guys off by wearing short skirts and even seem a bit desperate to them. Would you want a guy who seemed desperate?

If you want a guy who's going to like you for who you are, and not for your legs or your short skirt then you just have to be yourself. This may sound like old news, but you will attract the wrong kind of guy and give him the wrong impression by wearing short skirts to attract him. Certainly, take care of your appearance, but don't send out the wrong signals. As soon as you relax about it and are comfortable with yourself, guys will be more likely to be attracted to you. Confidence is far more appealing than desperation.