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Hi Casanova,

Hmm, this is an interesting one... quite the love triangle you've got going! Well quite frankly, I think you have answered your own question, judging by your obvious feelings for Ace. My advice is this: break up with Jay and wait and see what evolves between yourself and Ace. It isn't fair on Jay to play this kind of game especially considering you and RJ both believe you are destined to be with Ace. Stringing Jay along will only end in heartache. You risk losing friends on all counts; being dishonest to your true feelings is not a good thing.

If Ace is who you really desire, then have the courage to act upon your feelings. And if you're not ready to be with him, then work out what you DO want before involving others in your personal turmoil. "User" is not a name you want to be known by.

Hope this helps,
D.G.